From the beginning of the film the audience is introduced to the unique dynamics of the Hoover family. Richard, the father, is desperately trying to get a new motivational program to the public. He is feeling pressure to sell his program because all of the family’s savings have been poured into creating it. Dwayne has taken a vow of silence as homage to Nietzsche until he gets into the Air Force Academy. The Grandfather is a crude old man, recommending a life of meaningless sex with lots of women while snorting large amounts of heroine. Uncle Frank recently tried to commit suicide after a messy break up with his male partner. Olive is a happy four year old obsessed with beauty pageants who wants to one day wear her own crown. And Sheryl, the mother, desperately tries to keep the family together despite the growing dissention from every angle within the family. In the public eye, the Hoover family is definitely seen as dysfunctional. When Dwayne screams “divorce, bankrupt, suicide…you’re all losers” this illustrates how most people would view the Hoover family from the outside. However, as the movie continues it is clearly evident that their family bond is stronger than many “functional families.”
The relationship between Richard, Sheryl, and Olive is quite interesting. Richard is very results oriented and appears to be concerned with how others perceive the family. As Olive prepares for the beauty pageant, Richard is mainly concerned with the results of the pageant. He repeatedly asks Olive if she is going to win as this is all that matters. While Richard is concerned with winning, Sheryl makes sure Olive knows to just have fun and try her best. It is ok that Olive is not the best as long as she gives her best effort and is happy with whom she is as an individual. When the family is at the diner, their family dynamics are also revealed. When Olive is asked what she wants she initially apologizes to the waitress because she did not know what she wanted to order. Immediately Richard tells Olive “Don’t apologize, it’s a sign of weakness.” This illustrates Richard’s yearning to be seen as a positive and strong individual in the public eye. When Olive finally decides to order “Waffles Ala Mode,” Richard does not hesitate in alluding to the fact that ice cream contains fat. Richard conveys this message to Olive by asking her “Are the people who win pageants skinny or fat?” As a result Richard sways Olive away from eating her ice cream. Until this point Olive is naïve to the fact that she is a bit chubby compared to other children. However, Richard’s concern with how the public eye views Olive pushes him towards making her feel self-conscious about her body. As Richard is informing Olive about ice cream, Sheryl defends Olive’s innocence by saying “It’s ok to be skinny of fat.” Sheryl is mainly concerned with Olive’s happiness and wants to instill that body image does not define a person. Most important is to be happy and enjoy living life. The rest of the Hoover family supports Sheryl’s views. When Olive’s ice cream comes she does not eat it however; Dwayne, Uncle Frank, and Grandpa start to eat the ice cream. By eating the ice cream they support Olive and show her that body image is everything. Throughout their journey to California the Hoover family bonds are tested. Their true family bonds are shown in the final scene of the movie. When Olive is told to get off the stage it presents a pivotal moment in the film. The Hoover family could have easily remained in their seats and let the audience ridicule Olive. By staying in their seats the Hoover family would be giving into the cultural norms of the pageant. However, by joining Olive on stage it represents the family breaking the cultural norms of society. They do not care if Olive is different from all the other contestants. They support their daughter and her individuality. It is especially important that Richard joins Olive on stage. Throughout the movie it is clearly evident that Richard values how the public views his family. However by going on stage, it illustrates a huge shift in his attitude. Joining Olive on the stage as a family is a key turning point in the film. It illustrates that every family has its struggles and differences but at the end of the day their family bond remains intact and stronger than ever.